Can I please have…? « Patrick Bay Damsted

Can I please have…?

august 17, 2007 · 2 Kommentarer

Sometimes parenting is quite hard – other times, it´s just plain fun. Like this blogpost tells.

Kategorier: Parenting

2 responses so far ↓

Svend :o] // august 18, 2007 at 10:04 | Svar

It *is* very funny, but a little bit unreflected, but then again I do not have kids ]

I just posted this on the blog – sorry for the redundancy, but I can not link directly to the post:

Hmmm … yes you should make a lot of fun with your kids and yes a teenage boy should not be allowed to intimidate his mother like that, no matter how unprepared she are (and how can she be that btw having a son at 14?).

That said I think its weak to have a need to humiliate ones own son at the most vulnerable stage at his life … I mean theres not much prestige/sport in my view to “win” over 14 year olds, and posting it like this on the net is simply vulgar.

I have not read any other posts on the blog, and maybe the mother *is* a caring loving mother, maybe she is not, I do not care, but I *do* think that the end of the story – at least the way I hope it was – where the father pulls the boy aside and handles him a pack in the proper size, and says “good luck son, remember to use these”, is missing.

And yes 14 is a bit young for that kind of exercise, but – in my opinion – bursting out the need/interest/urge on the net, will not dampen the sons interest. When I was 14 this was a very very very very big part of my “processoruse”.

Devon – If you need condoms in a proper size, let me know, and I will post a pack to you.
Patrick Damsted // august 21, 2007 at 18:29 | Svar

Svend. Now you raised my doubt. As often it happens as a parent. Was it over the line? I don´t know. Initially it was fun. But maybe you´re right.